Being at peace is the wonderful
state of mind and body where all is calm, where thoughts are quiet and
serene, and where muscles are relaxed and comfortable. In this article,
you’ll learn how to attain this inner peace in a matter of minutes.
Once
you are adept at controlling your mind and body, you are always only
one simple thought away from perfect peacefulness. You can “will” perfect
peacefulness at any time. You will be able to move out of stressful
situations immediately. All you need to do is follow a few simple steps
to train yourself. A little practice is all that is required. But,
you must take the time to direct the mind and body in positive ways
so that you can ensure the pleasures of inner peace.
You’re
at the wheel. So let’s drive on!
Let
peace happen.
Being
at peace is a choice. When we stop struggling and fighting the world
around us—and the world within us—peace can happen. Our individual
fight is with our thoughts, emotions and physical bodies. The fighting
can be directed toward ourselves or those we face each day. Here are
several approaches to quickly give up the fight and win at the same
time.
There
are many ways your physical body can take on struggles you face
each day. Maybe you clench your jaw when you get mad. Maybe you collect
tension across the back of your neck and shoulders. Maybe butterflies
trouble your stomach. The first step is being aware of what you are
doing. The second step is to consciously make the choice to release
the tension.
Your
mind takes on struggles in the form of mental images. Do you
tend to imagine the ideal end result or the worst possible situation?
Troubling and negative mental images translate into unpleasant emotions
and stressful physical reactions. Choose carefully the thoughts you
think because they absolutely affect how you feel. Realize that the
only person who can change your thoughts is you. You can then take
charge and change your thoughts for the better.
Emotions
are natural physiological changes that occur when thoughts are held
in your mind. You can easily direct your emotional states by changing
your posture; for example, sit straight, tilt your head, use facial
expressions, walk differently, etc. You can also direct your emotional
states by holding brighter and more pleasing visual images in mind.
You have the choice, but you must make the choice.
Creating
Peace of Mind
To create peace within yourself, simply relax your body
and breathing; then, direct the mind.
A
still body is the reflection of a calm mind, but the mind cannot be
still until the body is still. Begin by making your body comfortable.
Then release areas of tension. As example, gentle movements of the
neck and shoulder muscles can help stretch and release tension in those
areas.
Breathing
in an even and steady way will quickly calm both the body and mind.
Make the inhale and exhale of equal length without any pauses in between.
Your breathing will become smooth and even.
The
next step is to quiet the mind. Start by bringing your awareness into
this present moment, here and now. By doing this you can effectively
eliminate distracting or troubling thoughts. Any anxieties about the
future or tensions from the past will leave your mind and body.
Another
way to direct the mind is to direct your inner voice--especially if
it is anxious or overbearing. Play with the idea of changing the volume
of your inner voice. Have it be quieter. Modify the tone of you inner
voice until it is pleasant, warm and nurturing. You can have it say
pleasant and comforting words to you—words of encouragement and self
esteem. Some people even repeat soothing words or phrases in a rhythmic
way.
The
final step is to hold images that encourage a peaceful mind. For thousands
of years, prayerful and meditative people have directed the mind by
holding steady mental pictures. For example, the image of a candle
flame can be used to concentrate one’s attention and steady the mind.
You can use images of a peaceful scene from nature, a vacation setting,
an imaginary room of comfort, a cathedral, rose bushes, or anything
calming, wonderful, and peaceful.
What
To Do Once You’ve Got There.
Getting
to a relaxed state of mind and body by the above steps may take 20-30
minutes at first. With practice, however, you’ll be able to accomplish
this within a few minutes.
When
you try to extend this peaceful feeling for long periods of time, you
may find that your mind will race to other thoughts. After all, your
mind is trained to race, to go full throttle, all day long. If you
suddenly stop for 20 minutes, will your mind to cooperate? No. It
will do what you trained it to do for the 16 hours--race!
So,
what’s the solution? How do you create a peace-filled life, and not
peaceful three-minute spurts? Take it one moment and one thought at
a time. Bring peaceful, serene, and positive images and feelings into
the rest of your day. Learn to release tensions as they occur. Learn
to direct your thoughts and emotions at the time they start getting
out of hand. You’ll discover that not only can you create a peacefulness,
but you are living a peace-filled life.
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